Knowing What You Want
Today is my 21st wedding anniversary. I’ve been blessed to have found a person I respect and admire to share my journey with. He’s been my friend, first and foremost, and I believe that’s how we’ve been able to make this commitment work so successfully. I’m humbled and honored that everyday for the past 21 [...]
Acceptance Quote
“Acceptance is the answer to all my problems today. When I am disturbed, it is because I find some person, place, thing or situation — some fact of my life — unacceptable to me, and I can find no serenity until I accept that person, place, thing or situation as being exactly the way it [...]
The Key
**This post is dedicated to CJ, whose writing and friendship are beautiful reminders that hiding is no longer an option.** During my first class in coaching school, we were taken through a visualization exercise where we were supposed to meet up with our future self. The point of the exercise was that my future self [...]
Choosing peace
“Which would you rather have, Lisa? To be right or have peace?” I remember the 1st time a coach asked me that question. I laughed aloud. DUH. To be right, stupid. Of course. As my corporate job continued it’s life-sucking drain, I remember standing on the curb many evenings waiting for my husband and thinking, [...]



